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There’s is not quick fix and hard rules of dating

I found it hysterical a few years ago when a few ladies wrote a book called “The Rules”. I don’t know what possessed them to think they knew all there was to know about dating, and it was even funnier when I heard what was in the book. Though there are some things that are common sense in any dating situation, there are no set rules of dating that will work for everyone. I have been married a long time, and haven’t dated since long before I met my spouse, but even I know this is true. I suspect a lot of people who got that book ended up very disappointed.

The rules of dating are that there aren’t many set rules. Guidelines might be a better way to go, but you should never ever claim you know the rules of dating. You can say that you should wait a certain amount of time to call someone back, or to never kiss on the first date, but those things won’t work for everyone. Every single person on this planet is unique, and the situation that arises between two of these people is unique as well. You can’t begin to know what would work for any two people, and to say so is very irresponsible.
Even worse, the ladies who followed these rules of dating were labeled as desperate. Many men would run the other way if they ever suspected some girl was reading a book that told them how to snare him for life. Not everyone is ready for that, and no book about the rules of dating is going to change that for anyone. There are some people who are not ready to get married, but they do enjoy dating and meeting new people. There is nothing wrong with that as long as they are honest about where they are in their life.

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